I love to work with couples – love, love, love it. Besides being a romantic at heart, I'm a big believer in the power of relationships to encourage us to bring our best forward, to work on our piles of doo-da and ultimately, make us feel more alive.
I've also been happily married for twenty-five years, and through all of life's experiences, I'm grateful for the joy and support that comes with this connection and commitment. I believe that by growing self-awareness, and then learning and practicing tried and true skills, you can build a relationship you love.
A RELATIONSHIP ON PURPOSE:
- Isn't an accident. It's the practice of sustaining healthy habits that support the feelings you have for each other.
HOW I HELP: I teach and encourage these habits – it’s biochemical and formula-based.
- Enhances each person’s experience; it doesn't complete it. Sorry, Jerry McGuire.
HOW I HELP: I help you define your needs, wants, desires and expectations and understand the difference between them and how to get them met.
- A living and breathing organism that must be nurtured to survive and ultimately thrive.
HOW I HELP: I share with you the principles and tools for lasting love.
- Values and honours individual perspectives while building a strong vision for the couple.
HOW I HELP: I help you create the road-map for Interdependence – support each other without losing yourself.
- One where conflict is seen as the possibility of a new awareness, increased trust and development. It isn't seen
as a sign of incompatibility.
HOW I HELP: I will teach you the difference between"right" fighting and fighting right.
- A place where each person feels safe to share and grow.
HOW I HELP: You will learn the neuroscience of conversation to feel understood and heard.
Not There Yet?
Round and round with the same conflict, no resolution?
Disconnected and disinterested in each other?
Lack of intimacy, physically, emotionally, and mentally?
Feeling lost and confused?
Things are pretty good, but you want better.
You want to divorce proof your marriage.
You want to create a vision for your future and work on it together.
You want to reinforce your foundation, so that no matter what comes your way, you remain a team.
You are about to have kids or you already do and you want to thrive as a family.
I’LL LEAD THE WAY
I'm like Sweden; a neutral, safe place where you can strengthen what's working, get the support and tools for what's not, and ultimately work your way back to each other.
I don’t pick a side – I'm for both of you and the partnership.
I offer an outside, helicopter view in order to help you to see the situation from a different perspective.
Coaching is solution focused and productive, and will provide real, active exercises and approaches to effectively work on your relationship.
I will provide a light, safe place, while respecting the sometimes heavy feelings and issues that arise.
Contact me today, and let's begin the journey to a relationship built, On Purpose